Thursday, November 19, 2009

Friend troubles?

i am in a group of friends and two of my friends seem to favor each other over everyone else. they write about each other all over their facebooks and about no one else. they always talk about how much fun they had doing this and hang out with each other wayyy more than the rest of us. i just want my group of friends to be equal, and nobody like each other less or more. and no they were not friends before we all met. what should i do???

Friend troubles?
I had the same problem with a couple of friends of mine... And it really pissed all of us off beucase they would just do stuff together and its not that we were being selfsih... its just they did whatever and never included us.. basically us not saying anything lead to a HUGEEE and i mean HUGEEEE fight between us.. ad it was HORRIBLE.. So here is My advice to you: TALK to them... IF they really are your friends.. they will listen to what you have to say and change their ways.. Here is how you should approach it: You should say that You are NOT saying that they cant be best friends... But what they Shouldnt do is exclude everyone and say stories and do this and that without you guys... Like They should be Bff's... But also be bff's with the group...


Please email me for anything... :) Good luck!
Reply:Let me guess....Highschool right?





Eeeh I shudder at those times. Let them have their little clique together theres nothing you can do. You just pretty much have to ignore them. We all want a perfect equal circle of friends but everyone in that circle has to want it to make it happen. Expand out to other circles and people and maybe expand that one circle. It would take your energy and time to something more positive and more rewarding. If they wanna join your circle then so be it if they dont then oh well you can still be friends with them no matter what.
Reply:It seems like your other friends would not want those hanging with them. I think you should suggest that you separate from those who are so close that they shut everyone else out. Talk to your other friends about it. Best of luck.
Reply:big deal, theyre just closer than the rest of you are.
Reply:i think you should give them a taste of thier own medicine. that is after you talk to them of course. if it doesn't mean anything to them that it hurts you. then don't include them on something as a group and see how they like it.
Reply:i think you should talk things over with your group girl. Explain before you complain...

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