Thursday, November 19, 2009

Guy friend issues, he knows i have a boyfriend but he still wants to hang out all the time?

he wanted to be my boyfriend but it was too late and i am in love with another guy, kyle knows i have a bf but he facebooks me about hanging out after dinner and ts like idk. im kinda gettting annoyed.





kyle said that he would wait as long as it takes and if i break up with Tyler then he'd be there for me.





recently kyle messeged me: hey hows it goin, i know u have a bf and all but i just miss you :) how are you





im like, oh kyle! lol ....he then asks, so u feel the same? and i have not responded. and he then leaves another msg like


hey whats goin on? or u doin anything tonight?





i dont want to lose him as a friend but i just need him to back off a bit

Guy friend issues, he knows i have a boyfriend but he still wants to hang out all the time?
Try to place yourself in his shoes, Would you give up if you liked someone alot? Just keep talking to him and if he starts really getting obsseive then i would distance yourself.
Reply:Just tell him straight up. Just hold your ground, and try to be a bit stern about it. I mean, you have a boyfriend in which you love, and he is currently trying to jeopardize your relationship.





If he is harmlessly telling you that he loves you, and doesn't try to push you to break up with your current boyfriend, then try to stay friends with him.





If he is intentionally trying to break you guys up, and makes your boyfriend feel uncomfortable, then why would you want to have a friend like that.





Just tell him that you currently have a boyfriend, and you love him. Make sure he knows that you only like him as a friend, and that is all your relationship is going to be for the time being. Just be open about your man, make sure everyone knows that your man is all you want. That makes your boyfriend feel better, and you will feel better in the end.


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