Thursday, November 19, 2009

Help about a crush and facebook.?

Ok....I really need some opinions on this. First off. I am 25 and in grad school. I work part time as a tutor and recently at a tutoring meeting (one of these things where we all get together and talk about how our sessions are going) I saw one of my coworkers I had never met before and I was extermly attracted to her. I talked to her a bit and she seemed really cool. Anyway after the meeting I couldn't stop thinking about her so...I looked into our old email listserve and found her name and looked her up on facebooks. Ok..so..I find out shes younger than me but has a lot of my interests.The question is..should I add her? I hardly ever see her but have kind of a crush on her. The thing is should I add her or would it look like I am a stalker? I want to ask her out but I never see her and I think facebook could give us something to talk about..so..yeah..what should I do?

Help about a crush and facebook.?
eh, I always think it's a little weird when people I don't really know friend me. I would wait a little while and talk to her a bit more before you make that move.
Reply:Yeah add her. I don't see anything wrong with that and I don't think she would either. And it would open the doors to talk to her also. Good luck to you.
Reply:I'd add her and then (private) message her poking fun at yourself and using facebook. Stalkers don't poke fun at themselves, I imagine. Sort of a hail mary anyway in this sort of situation, right? You'll only then have your foot in the door, but hey at least that's something. Good luck.
Reply:You should add her. People add people they don't even know as friends so if you do actually know her some, it won't seem weird or stalkerish.

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