Thursday, November 19, 2009

I did something really stupid and now I'm desperate to find the solution?

I walked up randomly to 3 girls that I went to high school with that I really like and that know a lot of people that I really like as well





I didn't think about anything to say while I was coming, so I asked their names and they know I know their names.





The only thing they could possible thought that I can imagine is something like: "oh poor guy he doesn't even know what to say", and then I couldn't think about anything else to say, so I walked off





I looked like a completely retard and I don't know how to solve the problem now, I only have their facebooks.

I did something really stupid and now I'm desperate to find the solution?
It happened, so let it go. You are making up a story about that incident and it's making it so that you are being owned by your thoughts of it. I would be willing to guarantee that these girls do not see the same thing you do. Give up whatever it is you thought you were. The more you let it gnaw at you, the longer it takes to relax again. Give it all up, and the next time you see any of these girls, just pretend it never happened and just be yourself. Don't even bring it up to them. Past is past.
Reply:OR they could think, oh he seems nice, a little nervous...but nice.


So my advice is...don't think twice about it.


Just be their friend.


Facebook is actually a really fun place to get to know people with the various applications.


It's helped me break the ice with people and get to know them.
Reply:Shrug it off ... I wouldn't worry or dwell on it too much.





There are so MANY WOMEN out there and you have so much choice.





If you're stuck on these 3 women then send them an email a week from now being honest aka " Listen... I think you are stunning and I approached you last time and I didnt know what to say (which has never happened before haha :) anyway we should do coffee sometime how does that sound"





Let me know how it goes
Reply:Time heals all wounds.
Reply:ask how they've been scince high school. it is not that hard to make small talk.
Reply:hmm... try again! find out something to actually say that makes sense and maybe that will help. and if they thought that, then are they even worth it?
Reply:I would just laugh it off with them. I am sure they will not think too much of it.


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